When Harry Met Sally: Author's Choice

While watching When Harry Met Sally, I was struck by the idea that there is no perfect formula for a relationship. Throughout the movie, there are segments of different couples explaining how they met and fell in love. Most of the couples are older and they are looking back on the beginning of their relationship. Each couple has their own special dynamic and connection. One couple talks over each other to tell the same story, apparently not listening to what the other is saying. But they work together to complete their story. The are a team and they have a certain way of playing together. There were some dynamics of the male being the power person and the woman being more quiet and there were some pairs with equal balance. Sometimes I might look at a couple and think that they have a bad relationship because it does not fit with what I want out of a relationship. But maybe I need to stop and consider their personal dynamic together and how they function as a unit. All that matters is that each couple works together to create their own bond. No one can replicate the love between two unique people who create one unique relationship.